Tuesday, September 20, 2005

LITTLE HOUSE SABBATH

Last year I read the whole Little House series to my children and they just adored it. So did I, by the way. A while back I started a "series" discussing my observations on the books. Here's my second installment; please forgive my extreme tardiness. For those who are curious, we read Swiss Family Robinson after Little House and we are now almost done The Secret Garden. I have to admit that even though SFR was interesting and exciting, it wasn't what I would call a joy to read aloud. On the other hand, The Secret Garden is one of the best books we've read. I just wish I could do a good Yorkshire accent. I keep trying to imitate Eliza in My Fair Lady but I know I'm falling far short. The good thing about reading aloud to your children though is that they don't care. They have no expectations and I am free to read as dramatically as I like.

On to the Little House books. In the first one, Little House in the Big Woods, I was struck by how the family spent their Sundays. They didn't have the opportunity to go to a church but they observed the Sabbath anyway. However, I felt the restrictions that were made on the children were kind of severe.

"On Sundays Mary and Laura must not run or shout or be noisy in their play. Mary could not sew on her nine-patch quilt, and Laura could not knit on the tiny mittens she was making for Baby Carrie. They might look quietly at their paper dolls, but they must not make anything new for them. They were not allowed to sew on doll clothes, not even with pins."

It seems Sundays were supposed to be as quiet as possible and as solemn as possible. If you've read the book you know that Laura couldn't take it one winter Sunday and started playing with the dog very loudly. However, Pa was very merciful to her and instead of punishment he told a story about how their grandpa had it even worse on Sundays. Grandpa had to do everything perfectly on Sunday - walk solemnly, talk but not laugh, sit perfectly still in church during a two hour sermon, plus sit perfectly still on a hard wooden bench in the afternoon studying their catechism. I wonder if this was typical for most families back then. They even ate their meals cold because cooking was considered work. I guess today the pendulum has swung far to other side. I think most evangelicals today don't try to set apart the Sabbath for anything except going to church and then maybe going out for lunch or having a special dinner.

Question: How does your family set the Sabbath day apart? Is it a day of solemnity or a day of joy and celebration?

Our dog finally gets neutered this Friday. Hallelujah!! He has so much energy I think we could power our house off of him. I hope neutering will help with his chewing obsession. He loves the kids' stuffed animals. I've already had to replace one of my daughter's.

Have a great week! Sorry I've been so lax in posting lately. I'll try to post another review of Piper's When I Don't Desire God next. Blessings.

3 comments:

Roberta said...

Meredith~
We are reading Farmer Boy in the evenings, and have just finished the chapter where Almanzo and his family go to church. I know it is written from a young boys perspective, but was taking note that they seemed a bit "religious" in their practices (having the biggest stable-according to their means, sitting quiet and still all afternoon -to where Almanzo looked forward to his chores-, having to stare at the preacher for 2 hours, because his Pa would know if he looked away) and wondered about the "relationship" part. And 3 full hens in a chicken pie for a family of 6! I wonder if they ever brought someone home to feast with them. (of course we were drooling over their culinary delights!) Although I must say they were a very hard working disciplined family and they were blessed to reap the benefits of that. I think many in this current generation (myself included) don't quite appreciate that kind of hard work nor practice discipline well in many areas of our lives. Perhaps all that "hard work" really helps one appreciate a true day set aside, by God, to rest. The Bible even says in Heb. 12:11 "For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it."
It's been about 4 1/2 years since we read the first 2 books, and haven't gone onto the others yet, so I couldn't say for those. Anyway, my rambling 2 cents.
What does our family do? We homechurch, and have a shared meal and fellowship (e.o.w.) We probably think too much about the week ahead and do some things to prep for it. It's generally a more mellow day, I wouldn't say solemn. Would I crochet on Sunday? Yes. Do our children laugh and be loud? Yes. Do we tell them to be quiet at times? Oh yes! Do I need more discipline? Most definately.
Sorry, this is soooooooooooo long.

Meredith said...

Roberta-Hey! Are you settled in Idaho yet? We never read Farmer Boy aloud. Our oldest read it by himself. Your descriptions don't surprise me though.
How long have you done homechurch? What made you decide to do it? Just curious.

The other Little House books are definitely worth reading aloud. On the Shores of Silver Lake is wonderful and The Long Winter is kind of sad. They almost starve.

Blessings to you.

Roberta said...

Miss Meredith~
Why are we homechurching?...we loved our previous church, it's reformed in doctrine, charismatic in worship, and evangelical in mission (not a typical combination). Our family and the two others that moved here strongly desire to follow a similar model, but have yet to find it. We are homechurching together, and are praying about how the Lord will direct us, to plant a church, or join together with another like-minded group doing the same. We are all in the season of business and babies, so are praying for older, wiser men and their families who share this vision. So I don't get all wordy again, the church we went to has a website, you can see the overall vision there. www.hofcc.org (It's the one Karen visited, I'm still curious her thoughts on their visit, but I know she's probably feeling abit blucky and couch bound.)
Happy Dog Neutering Day! jk! I've heard it mellows them out!
Roberta :)