Wednesday, March 23, 2005

WONDERFUL ALLEGORIES

How does that saying go again? "Dance with the one that brung ya." In any case, I urge you to go find the original, Japanese version of the movie Shall We Dance. The Americanized version with Richard Gere and Jennifer Lopez will not do for the purposes of what I'm about to write.

Let me explain what's going on in the movie so the quote will have more impact. An amateur ballroom dance couple is being coached for competition by an experienced professional dancer. She has been depressed for a while because she and her partner recently failed at the most prestigious dance competition, Blackpool. She returned home and was miserable teaching in her father's dance studio. But then, as I said, she starts coaching an amateur couple for competition. I want to quote from a letter she writes to her male student, Mr. Sugiyama.

During the months we practiced for the competition, something began to change within me. I came to realize that I had always danced alone, never fully trusting my partner. My failure at Blackpool was not his fault (her partner had not protected her after they had collided with another couple and fell during the competition). It was a natural result of me dancing only for myself. It was you who taught me the splendor of dance when you trust and enjoy. I decided to start again from the beginning.

It is Jesus who is teaching me the splendor of living the abundant life (John 10:10) when I fully trust Him and surrender joyfully to His leading, moment by moment.

"Make me know Thy ways, O Lord; teach me Thy paths. Lead me in Thy truth and teach me, for Thou art the God of my salvation; for Thee I wait all the day." Psalm 25:4-5

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Pick up The Velveteen Rabbit and read it to your children this week. As I read it to my children I realized the wonderful allusions to rebirth and resurrection that are contained in the story. Here are some quotes:

"What is REAL?" asked the Rabbit one day, when they were lying side by side near the nursery fender, before Nana came to tidy the room. "Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?"
"Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real."
"Does it hurt?" asked the Rabbit.
"Sometimes, " said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. "When you are Real you don't mind being hurt."
"Does it happen all at once, like being wound up," he asked, "or bit by bit?"
"It doesn't happen all at once," said the Skin Horse. "You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't often happen to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand."
"I suppose you are Real?" said the Rabbit. And then he wished he had not said it, for he thought the Skin Horse might be sensitive. But the Skin Horse only smiled.
"The Boy's Uncle made me Real," he said. "That was a great many years ago; but once you are Real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always."
The Rabbit sighed. He thought it would be a long time before this magic called Real happened to him. He longed to become Real, to know what it felt like; and yet the idea of growing shabby and losing his eyes and whiskers was rather sad. He wished that he could become it without these uncomfortable things happening to him.

And later on in the story, after the Rabbit has become Real, but has been discarded after the Boy suffered with scarlet fever ~~~~

...He thought of the Skin Horse, so wise and gentle, and all that he had told him. Of what use was it to be loved and lose one's beauty and become Real if it all ended like this? And a tear, a real tear, trickled down his little shabby velvet nose and fell to the ground.
And then a strange thing happened. For where the tear had fallen a flower grew out of the ground, a mysterious flower, not at all like any that grew in the garden. It had slender green leaves the colour of emeralds, and in the centre of the leaves a blossom like a golden cup. It was so beautiful that the little Rabbit forgot to cry, and just lay there watching it. And presently the blossom opened, and out of it there stepped a fairy.
She was quite the loveliest fairy in the whole world. Her dress was of pearl and dewdrops, and there were flowers round her neck and in her hair, and her face was like the most perfect flower of all. And she came close to the little Rabbit and gathered him up in her arms and kissed him on his velveteen nose that was all damp from crying.
"Little Rabbit," she said, "don't you know who I am?"
The Rabbit looked up at her, and it seemed to him that he had seen her face before, but he couldn't think where.
"I am the nursery magic Fairy," she said. "I take care of all the playthings that the children have loved. When they are old and worn out and the children don't need them any more, then I come and take them away with me and turn them into Real."
"Wasn't I Real before?" asked the little Rabbit.
"You were Real to the Boy," the fairy said, "because he loved you. Now you shall be Real to every one."
And she held the little Rabbit close in her arms and flew with him into the wood.
It was light now, for the moon had risen. All the forest was beautiful, and the fronds of the bracken shone like frosted silver. In the open glade between the tree-trunks the wild rabbits danced with their shadows on the velvet grass, but when they saw the Fairy they all stopped dancing and stood round in a ring to stare at her.
"I've brought you a new playfellow," the Fairy said. "You must be very kind to him and teach him all he needs to know in Rabbit-land, for he is going to live with you for ever and ever!"
And she kissed the little Rabbit again and put him down on the grass.
"Run and play, little Rabbit!" she said. But the little Rabbit sat quite still for a moment and never moved. For when he saw all the wild rabbits dancing around him he suddenly remembered about his hind legs, and he didn't want them to see that he was made all in one piece. He did not know that when the Fairy had kissed him that last time she had changed him altogether. And he might have sat there a long time, too shy to move, if just then something hadn't tickled his nose, and before he thought what he was doing he lifted his hind toe to scratch it.
And he found that he actually had hind legs! Instead of dingy velveteen he had brown fur, soft and shiny, his ears twitched by themselves, and his whiskers were so long that they brushed the grass. He gave one leap and the joy of using those hind legs was so great that he went springing about the turf on them, jumping sideways and whirling round as the others did, and he grew so excited that when at last he did stop to look for the Fairy she had gone.
He was a Real Rabbit at last, at home with the other rabbits.

"Therefore we have been buried with Him through baptism into death, in order that as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in newness of life. For if we have become united with Him in the likeness of His death, certainly we shall be also in the likeness of His resurrection..." Romans 6:4-5

5 comments:

Karen said...

It is Jesus who is teaching me the splendor of living the abundant life (John 10:10) when I fully trust Him and surrender joyfully to His leading, moment by moment.

"Make me know Thy ways, O Lord; teach me Thy paths. Lead me in Thy truth and teach me, for Thou art the God of my salvation; for Thee I wait all the day." Psalm 25:4-5

Wow, Meredith, what a great focus for the morning. Thanks!!

elisa said...

The qoute from the movie hits me hard (Thwack!)
"I came to realize that I had always danced alone, never fully trusting my partner. My failure at Blackpool was not his fault. It was a natural result of me dancing only for myself.It was you who taught me the splendor of dance when you trust and enjoy. I decided to start again from the beginning."

I see this in so many areas of my life. I want control but don't want the blame when things go wrong. The Lord has been showing me to trust Him instead of controlling everyting. Which to me means to trusting the people (husband, neighbors, friends, family) in my life, with my life.
Matt 16:25 ~ "For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will find it."
Thanks for sharing.
I'll have to try to find a copy of the origanal movie.

Meredith said...

Karen, I keep forgetting that you're three hours behind me. I'm so glad that you were blessed. Let's wait on Him.

Lis, I bought the movie (VHS) at Blockbuster years ago. I'm sure you can find it on the internet. Also, it's so joyfully freeing to know that we don't have to control everything. It sounds scary but if we truly believe God is who He says He is, He's sovereign over all and leads us like a good Shepherd. Blessings to you. Thanks for reading.

Ann Voskamp @Holy Experience said...

Thank you, Meredith--I am going to read Velveteen Rabbit this week to the bunchkins....
Humble appreciation
Ann holyexperience.blogspot.com

Meredith said...

You're certainly welcome, Ann. I pray they will enjoy the simple wonder of it as much as I did :)